Attending a fantasy ball is a chance to step into an enchanted world where imagination reigns and style knows no bounds. Whether you’re channeling an elven queen, a celestial sorceress, or a romantic noblewoman from a world that never was, what you wear plays a major role in bringing your character—and the event—to life.
But before you begin assembling your dream look, it’s important to understand the event itself. Not all fantasy balls are created equal. Some may draw from specific historical eras with fantasy flourishes—like a Regency fae court or a 14th-century masquerade—while others encourage full original world-building with no rules at all. Some events may even be tied to specific lore or fandoms. Always read the event guidelines: Are guests expected to stay in character? Are there any costume restrictions or themes? The more you know, the more cohesive (and respectful) your look will be.
Also, consider the activities. Fantasy balls are more than photo ops—they often include ballroom dancing, immersive performances, and long hours on your feet. As tempting as they are, oversized wings, massive hoop skirts, long trains, and dramatic capes can be difficult to manage in a crowd or on the dance floor. Your outfit should balance style with comfort and mobility, especially if you’ll be waltzing or twirling through the night.
If you’re attending a grand fantasy ball, a themed wedding, or an immersive historical event, this guide is your go-to resource for dressing like royalty from a realm all your own. From regal gowns to ethereal accessories, here’s how to create a magical look that is both graceful and dance-floor friendly. Also check out our Men’s guide to fantasy ball attire.
Fantasy ball looks can be incredibly elaborate. One of the most stunning aspects of fantasy fashion is the details and depth of the outfits. Creating depth through layers with different textures and materials adds an air of authenticity to your look. However, due to that fact, there’s a lot to take in and a lot to choose from. Here’s the process I’d recommend you follow:
- Research & Inspiration
Start by exploring the world or character you’re channeling. Whether it’s based in lore, a theme, or original fantasy, knowing your vibe will guide all your choices. - The Base: The Dress
Your dress is the foundation of your outfit. It sets the tone, silhouette, and color palette that everything else will build upon. - Layers & Clothing Accessories
Add depth and texture with corsets, detachable sleeves, belts, capes, overdresses, or structured underskirts. These pieces can elevate a simple gown into a striking ensemble. - Jewelry, Accessories & Props
From necklaces and cuffs to potions, staffs, fans, or daggers—these extras help tell your character’s story and reinforce the theme. - Headwear, Hair & Makeup
Crowns, flower crowns, circlets, or hats paired with fantasy-inspired hairstyles and makeup complete the transformation and define your overall look. - Footwear
Choose comfortable shoes you can stand and dance in, knowing that most will be hidden beneath a full-length gown—so prioritize comfort and stability. - Where to Shop
From handmade Etsy finds to thrifted treasures and DIY pieces, here are tips for sourcing everything you need while staying within your budget and vision.
Research: Scour Pinterest and Other Sites for Inspiration
Before committing to a final look, spend some time exploring and dreaming. Pinterest, Instagram, Etsy, and even costume design blogs are goldmines for inspiration. You don’t need to lock anything in right away, but start narrowing in on a fashion aesthetic or “core” you’d like to work around—whether that’s elven elegance, dark enchantress, royal court regalia, or woodland whimsy.
As you research, think about what elements are most important to you and use that as your styling “North Star.” Is historical accuracy a must? That might steer you toward specific silhouettes or time periods, like the Tudor or Regency eras. Would you rather create an original character or focus on a specific color motif, vibe, or magical archetype? That opens the door to more creative freedom.
Shows / Movies for Inspiration:
- Once Upon a Time
- Bridgerton
- Lord of the Rings
- Pride & Prejudice
- Pirates of the Caribbean 1
- Cinderella Live Action
Things to consider while gathering ideas:
- Time period: Are you drawing from a specific era (like medieval, renaissance, rococo, or Victorian)?
- Silhouette: Think corsets vs. empire waist, hoop skirts vs. flowy A-line gowns.
- Color palette: Does your look center around icy blues, moody jewel tones, golden light, or earthy neutrals?
- Vibe: Do you want to look powerful and dark, regal and commanding, soft and ethereal, mysterious and celestial?
Pro Tip: Many fantasy balls share official mood boards or Pinterest boards curated by the organizers—these are incredibly helpful for aligning your outfit with the event’s aesthetic. Understanding the tone of the event will help your look feel more cohesive—and ensure you’re dressing respectfully and appropriately. Be sure to read through all event guidelines carefully and note things like:
- Are guests expected to stay in character?
- Are there any rules about wings, masks, or trains?
- Is there a specific theme or lore you’re expected to align with?
Start Browsing: Where to Look and What to Look For
- Pinterest & Instagram: Great for mood boards and keyword-driven searches.
- Etsy: Offers unique handmade or less common designs- start favoriting the things you like
- Google & Costume Blogs: Helpful for deep dives into specific eras or fantasy tropes.
- Be cautious: Many sellers, especially on marketplace sites, use stolen or AI-generated images. Always read reviews, ask for real photos, and be wary of too-good-to-be-true pricing.
Helpful Search Phrases to Guide Your Research:
- “Regency ball gown”
- “Elven princess dress”
- “Medieval fantasy gown”
- “Victorian corset dress”
- “Renaissance faire dress”
- “Fairy core dress”
- “Women’s fantasy princess gown”
- “Witchy formal dress”
- “Gothic ball gown”
The Base: AKA Your Dress
When choosing a dress or gown for a fantasy ball, aim for silhouettes and fabrics that evoke timeless beauty and romanticism. Note this guide follows the traditionally feminine attire of wearing a dress, if you desire to wear pants you may find the guide to fantasy attire for men, which follows more traditionally masculine attire, to be more useful.
Consider the functionality of them as well though- can you walk/ dance in it? Avoid long trains for this reason.
Look for:
- Empire waists or corseted bodices
- Square or off-the-shoulder necklines
- Full-length skirts with volume (think layers, ruffles, or circle skirts that can fit hoop skirts)
- High-low cuts with long overskirts
- Dramatic sleeves (puff, bell, bishop, or flared)
- Lace, Ruffles, Floral Patterns, Appliques, and Gems for extra pizazz
Fabrics to Look For: velvet, lace, brocade, chiffon, silk, tulle, or satin.
Pro Tip: A hoop skirt or petticoat can make all the difference, this will help you get more volume out of your dress/skirt
Adding a crinoline petticoat or hoop skirt beneath your ball gown can dramatically enhance your silhouette, bringing volume, structure, and authenticity to your look. The choice between the two depends on your gown’s style, fabric weight, and desired shape. Petticoats—usually made of layered tulle or crinoline—are ideal for achieving soft, flowing volume and work well with A-line, princess, or romantic tulle skirts. They’re great for adding fullness without stiffness and allow for more natural movement. Hoop skirts, on the other hand, feature built-in flexible rings (usually steel or plastic) and are designed to support structured ball gowns, Victorian silhouettes, or historical-inspired dresses with dramatic circumference. They offer maximum fullness with less fabric bulk underneath but can restrict movement and may be difficult in crowded settings.
When choosing, consider the shape your dress was designed to achieve—does the skirt fall straight with subtle fullness (opt for a light petticoat), or is it meant to bell out dramatically from the waist (a hoop may be needed)? Always try your understructure with your gown before the event to ensure the length, fit, and flow all work together seamlessly. Be aware when you order dresses online, they will often require a petticoat in order to have the same full skirt look that it does in the image advertised. You can sometimes find things like “hoop skirt not included” or look in the review photos and see if the volume is true to the photo or if you’ll need a separate add on.
Pro Tip: If you have a dress with thinner fabric, you may see the hoops through the silhouette. Fix this by adding a thin crinoline or tulle petticoat over the hoop skirt.
Something to think about: One advantage to hoop skirts is that they’re great for keeping fabric off your legs in hot weather.
3. Layers and Accessories
The right accessories can transform a regular dress into a royal ensemble. Choose details that add charm, but avoid anything too bulky that might interfere with dancing or mingling.
Recommended accessories:
- Long gloves
- Add on sleeves
- armor/wrist cuffs
- Cloaks, shawls, or capes (be careful of drag for dancing)
- boleros, corsets
- Waist sashes, corset belts, or embellished wraps
Caution: Avoid wearing large wings or elaborate props that could obstruct dancing or crowd movement. Weapons (even fantasy ones) must be clearly plastic or dull props only.
Let’s start with the shoulders- if you’ve taken the approach of a simpler dress, this section can really help you spice that baby up and add a wow factor. If you’ve chosen a dress that already has dramatic sleeves or cape built in, you may skip this part or you may use it to add even more depth to your outfit. Something nice about adding drama to your dress using gloves, detachable sleeves, or a cape is that you can lose some layers during the night as needed. Keep the layers for photos but then losing them as you get too hot or tired while dancing can be a great option.
Gloves can add so much to your outfit with a low cost and dramatic effects. Personally, I will always recommend fingerless gloves if your goal is functionality or comfort because having to take off your long gloves every time you want to eat or use your phone gets tiresome (I’ve been there plenty of times). Fingered gloves however can make a big statement if you’re going for historical look or a nod to a specific cosplay like Cinderella or Sailor Moon.
4. Jewelry: add some sparkle and shine
The right jewelry can elevate your fantasy ball outfit from beautiful to unforgettable. Whether you’re aiming for ethereal enchantment, royal opulence, or mysterious dark magic, your accessories are what tie the entire look together and tell a deeper story about your character. Think of jewelry as more than just decoration—it’s a form of visual storytelling that can echo your theme, reflect your persona, and add layers of texture and sparkle to your ensemble.
Start by identifying the vibe of your outfit. A whimsical fairy might choose delicate pieces with floral motifs, iridescent stones, and dainty chains, while a regal queen would lean toward bold statement pieces like gemstone-studded chokers, ornate cuffs, or a dramatic tiara. A dark sorceress or villainess could incorporate gothic elements like black lace chokers, claw rings, or antique silver filigree. Look for materials and finishes that enhance your color palette—gold for warmth and luxury, silver for cool tones and mystique, bronze or pewter for a more medieval or earthy feel.
You don’t need to spend a fortune, either—great fantasy-inspired jewelry can be found on Etsy, thrift shops, or even fast fashion stores if you know what you’re looking for. Use search terms like “elven jewelry,” “fantasy crown,” “vintage statement necklace,” or “witchcore accessories” to find pieces that match your character. Ultimately, your jewelry should feel like an extension of the world you’re stepping into—adding sparkle, power, or magic with every movement.
5. Hair and Head wear and Makeup:
Once you’ve chosen your dress and accessories, it’s time to complete your transformation with the perfect hairstyle, headwear, and makeup. These final touches help define your character and bring your entire fantasy look into focus. Whether you’re going for romantic, regal, wild, or wicked, how you style your hair, adorn your head, and accent your features can elevate your costume from beautiful to breathtaking. Together, they set the mood and make your outfit feel intentional and immersive.
Hair Styles to Match the Magic
Your hairstyle can instantly communicate who you are at the ball—are you a graceful elven maiden with cascading waves? A crowned queen with sleek, sculpted braids? A fairy with playful tendrils and soft curls? Loose, flowing curls, braided crowns, and half-up styles are all popular choices that work beautifully with fantasy aesthetics. Consider adding small decorative elements like ribbon, beads, or flowers woven into braids or pinned into buns to echo your outfit’s vibe. For a darker or more dramatic character, a sleek style or structured updo can add edge and elegance.
Styles to consider:
- Soft curls or waves
- Half-up braided styles
- Crown braids or milkmaid braids
- Loose buns with decorative pins
- Hair adorned with pearls, gold wire, ribbons, or flowers
Pro Tip: Add flowers or gems into your hair to give it that fantasy glow
Search ideas:
- “Fantasy braided updo”
- “Elven hairstyle”
- “Romantic vintage curls”
- “Renaissance festival hair”
Don’t feel limited by your natural hair—extensions and wigs are widely used and can help you achieve a dramatic look with minimal effort. Clip-in extensions are a great way to add volume or length for braids and curls, especially if your hair is shorter or finer. Wigs, on the other hand, can completely transform your appearance and are ideal for creating fantasy hair colors (like silver, lavender, or deep green) without permanent dye. Just be aware: wigs can get hot and uncomfortable during long events, so opt for a lightweight, breathable cap and make sure it’s secured well with pins or a wig grip. When choosing a wig, look for natural hairlines, heat-safe fibers, and a color that complements your costume without clashing.
There’s also no rules when it comes to fantasy lore- if your dream is to have magical fairy hair, go ahead and throw some glitter and color in there! You can braid colored hair into your own to add whimsical hair or use clip in extensions (just be aware of their heat tolerance if you plan on curling or styling them!)
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Headpieces That Tell a Story
Fantasy headwear is often the crowning glory of a look—literally. A jeweled crown, delicate circlet, or flower crown can instantly define your character and add visual drama from head to toe. A simple head chain or crystal tiara adds a celestial or regal touch, while a wide-brimmed hat, witch’s cap, or vintage fascinator can help shape more specific personas. Just be mindful of the weight and placement—if your headpiece is large, heavy, or precariously balanced, you’ll need to secure it with bobby pins, hair combs, or discrete elastic bands. Do a trial run before the event to make sure everything stays put through dancing, photos, and movement. The right headwear not only completes your look—it makes it unforgettable.
Accessories:
- Tiaras
- Circlets
- floral crowns
- hair pieces
- beaded headbands
6. Footwear ideas:Comfort is key for a night of dancing, but beauty can still shine through.
When it comes to choosing shoes for a fantasy ball, comfort should be your top priority—especially if the event includes dancing, standing, or walking for long periods. The truth is, if you’re wearing a full-length gown without a high slit, your shoes will be barely visible most of the night. That means you can prioritize function without sacrificing the magic. Vintage-style pumps or low heels are a great option for a classic or regal look, offering elegance without the pain of towering stilettos. Lace-up boots, whether ankle or knee-length, add a dramatic, old-world flair—perfect for medieval, steampunk, or dark sorceress vibes. If you’re leaning into something softer or more whimsical, embellished flats or ballet-style slippers can look lovely and feel like a dream to wear. And for those channeling nobility or elven grace, velvet slippers or court shoes are a romantic, historically-inspired choice. Whatever you choose, make sure you can walk and dance comfortably—because feeling good in your outfit is just as important as looking magical.
Shoe Ideas:
- Vintage-style pumps or low heels
- Lace-up boots (ankle or knee-length)
- Embellished flats or ballet-style slippers
- Soft velvet slippers or court shoes
Where to Shop (or Create!)
You don’t have to spend a fortune to look magical. Many enchanting looks can be created through layering, thrifting, or slight alterations.
Budget-friendly shopping tips:
- Thrift Stores: Look for prom dresses, vintage gowns, or long skirts that can be accessorized into something magical
- Facebook Marketplace: basically an online thrift store but this can be a great place to find old prom or bridesmaids dresses for a low cost along with the possible accessories. You basically never know what you’ll find!
- Etsy: Search for handmade cloaks, circlets, and fantasy jewelry
- Amazon: Try searching for “medieval dress” or “costume ball gown”
- Costume Stores: Great for accessories and layering pieces
- DIY: Add lace, beading, or trim to an existing gown; layer a corset belt over a long dress; create a fun cape from some tulle or chiffon
Pro Tip: A great time to shop is Halloween time. Another great time to shop is prom- shop the sales and clearance events to find big dramatic dresses for less.
Power of layering: A long cape over a simple dress, a brocade vest, or gloves can elevate even the simplest piece into something magical.
Final Tips for a Successful Night
- Don’t be afraid to stand out! If you haven’t attended many events like ren fairies or conventions, you might think your outfit is “too much.” It’s not! I can tell you from experience that once you arrive, everyone will love it and you’ll be so happy you went all out.
- Test your outfit: Ensure your costume is comfortable and functional for sitting, dancing, and moving. Extra safety pins and bobby pins can be a real life saver, stick some in your bag!
- Stay hydrated: Many fantasy balls are long events, and wearing heavy costumes can be taxing.
- Interact with love and confidence: Compliment others on their attire and share stories about your character or inspiration. It’s rare I find negative people at events like this but if you do, just move on, you’ll find wonderful friendly people the more you wander and chat!
Embrace the fantasy, dress to charm, and dance like it’s your moment in a fairytale.
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