If your wedding invitation says “Garden Party Black Tie,” you’re not alone in asking: “Wait—do I wear a ballgown or florals?” The short answer is: a bit of both. This dress code blends traditional black-tie formality with whimsical, outdoor-friendly flair.
When a wedding invitation lists “Garden Party Black Tie” as the dress code, it signals a celebration that combines the sophistication of traditional formalwear with the light, fresh feel of an outdoor summer event. It’s still a formal occasion—think gowns, tuxedos, and elevated accessories—but with a softer, more romantic twist inspired by nature, florals, and the season.
Unlike classic black-tie events held in ballrooms or hotels, a garden party black tie wedding is often hosted outdoors—in a vineyard, estate garden, backyard tent, or botanical venue. That means fabrics, colors, and styling choices should take the setting into account. Light materials, soft color palettes, and floral or nature-inspired accessories are encouraged, while still keeping the overall look polished and formal.
This guide will help you navigate what to wear, whether you’re looking to choose the right length of dress, the best shoes for grass and gravel, or how to incorporate summer-friendly textures and details into a tuxedo or suit. With the right styling, you’ll feel appropriately dressed for the elegance of the event—while also embracing the relaxed charm of a warm-weather outdoor wedding.
Let’s dive into outfit ideas for both women and men that honor the dress code and keep you comfortable, confident, and stylish from ceremony to sunset. Here’s your go-to guide for nailing the look—whether you’re dressing for sunshine, elegance, or the photo op of the season.
For the Ladies:
For women, a “Garden Party Black Tie” dress code calls for floor-length gowns that blend formal elegance with soft, seasonal charm. This is not a casual affair—short cocktail dresses and daywear won’t meet the black tie requirement—but the garden party element does allow for lighter colors, delicate prints, and airy fabrics that nod to spring or summer.
Look for gowns made from chiffon, silk, tulle, or satin that feel appropriate for an outdoor setting. While full-length is the standard, a high-low hemline or subtle slit can work if the dress still reads as formal and elegant. Consider pastel tones, muted florals, or romantic jewel tones that feel fresh and elevated.
Shoes can range from low-heeled sandals to stilettos, but keep in mind the outdoor setting—thin heels may sink into grass or gravel. Wedges, block heels, or dressy flats offer style and stability, especially for longer events or uneven terrain.
When it comes to accessories, think soft and romantic. A dainty necklace or strand of pearls pairs beautifully with a bold dress, while statement earrings or cuffs can add drama to a simpler silhouette. Depending on the couple’s taste and setting, you might even consider a wide-brimmed hat, fascinator, or vintage birdcage veil to play into the garden party vibe. Other optional touches include tea-length gloves, a coordinating clutch, or a floral hair clip or pin.
Finish the look with elegant hair and makeup—a loose chignon, soft curls, or a braided updo, complemented by glowing skin and fresh, polished makeup. The goal is to strike a balance between timeless black-tie formality and light, romantic seasonal details.
In Summary:
Gown length:
- Floor-length formal gowns
Fabrics:
- Light, flowing materials like chiffon, silk, satin, or tulle
Colors & prints:
- Soft pastels, jewel tones, or garden-inspired shades
- Muted floral spring prints
- Per standard: Never wear a white dress to a wedding!
Silhouettes to Shop For:
- Flowy skirts, off-the-shoulder, one-shoulder, romantic ruffles, puff sleeves, sheer bishop sleeves, strapless, spaghetti straps
Shoes:
- Block heels, wedges, or flats for stability on grass
- Dressy sandals or closed-toe pumps in neutral or metallic tones
Accessories:
- Dainty necklaces and earrings like pearls or simple pendants will compliment a statement dress
- Statement earrings or necklaces will compliment a simpler dress
- Clutch or mini handbag
- Optional: gloves, parasols, or floral hair accents
Inspiration:
For the Gents:
For men, the “Garden Party Black Tie” dress code blends the formality of black tie with summer garden elegance. While a tuxedo is always appropriate, a dark, well-fitted suit in charcoal, deep navy, or rich green is also acceptable—especially when paired with elevated accessories. The goal is to look polished and event-ready while feeling seasonally appropriate and comfortable outdoors. Dress shirts should be crisp and classic. The classic is white or pale blue but the garden party is a great time to break out pastels like blush or lavender. Bow ties or neckties in floral, paisley, or soft pastel tones can subtly nod to the garden party setting as well. A white or pale-toned pocket square, and an optional boutonnière, can elevate the entire ensemble. Beige suits or white dinner jackets are excellent for cooler evenings or more fashion-forward dressers.
Footwear should remain formal: polished oxfords, loafers, or leather dress shoes are ideal. Avoid casual shoes or sneakers, even in an outdoor setting. If the terrain is uneven, rubber soles or leather-soled loafers offer a practical alternative to dressy shoes that can sink into soft ground.
Complete the look with thoughtful details—a wristwatch, well-groomed facial hair, and light cologne. This is your chance to blend classic style with a seasonal, botanical edge.
The Suit
- A classic black tuxedo
- A 3 piece suit (with matching vest)
- A well-fitted dark 3 piece suit (black, charcoal, or navy)
For stronger garden-party vibe, try:
- A deep green, navy, beige, or muted burgundy tux/suit
- A white dinner jacket with black tux trousers
Shirts & Ties
- A crisp white tuxedo shirt (pleated or smooth) or nice dress shirt
- Black bow tie is traditional, but a subtle floral or soft-colored bow tie can work too
- formal tie if bow ties aren’t your thing
Shoes
- Patent leather oxfords or formal loafers
- Dark dress shoes in black or deep brown (polished, please!)
- No sneakers or casual shoes—even if it’s outdoors
Finishing Touches
- Pocket square in a soft floral or matching pastel
- Light cologne, a watch, and trimmed grooming complete the look
Inspiration:
Conclusion:
“Garden Party Black Tie” is your chance to embrace elegance without sacrificing seasonal charm. Florals, color, and creativity are all welcome—but keep the overall look sophisticated. When in doubt, overdress slightly—this is still a black-tie event, after all.
A Note from Claire, the Author:
If you’re referring to this post for the wedding at the Botanical Gardens in Wichita, Kansas in 2026—hi, and I’m so glad you’re here! A few specific tips that might help: While the overall dress code is garden party black tie, please know that all paths at the venue are paved—there’s no need to worry about walking through grass or uneven ground. The ceremony and reception will take place indoors, but there will be an outdoor cocktail hour and access to the garden grounds throughout the evening, so feel free to explore.
Even though it’s June, the indoor space is air-conditioned and can feel chilly, so I recommend that ladies bring a wrap, shawl, or light sweater if you tend to get cold. There will be ample seating available all night, but you should still be prepared for a bit of walking if you’d like to stroll the gardens—and of course, dancing is absolutely encouraged!
I’m so excited to see each of you—and your stunning outfits—and to celebrate together in such a beautiful space.
Bring layers: Outdoor weddings can get chilly as the sun sets—shawls, boleros, or light dinner jackets are great.
Mind the weather: Have a stylish umbrella or backup shoe option if rain’s in the forecast.
Lean into the theme, but stay elevated: Garden party doesn’t mean picnic chic. Stay polished with luxe fabrics and clean silhouettes.
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